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The Grand Graduation Adventure - The Festivities

5/26/2024

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You might be wondering, when will she get to the actual graduation? Right now! 

After traveling and visiting with friends, we made our way to Springfield, MO, a place we called "home" for 5 years. Our first mission was to go to the seminary and grab the cap, gown and much coveted hood! It felt funny to be on the Evangel University campus, a first for us. In the 1990's, the seminary was located downtown on the top floor of the Assemblies of God Headquarters building. In all the years we were in Springfield, we never once stepped onto the campus of what was then Evangel College. Since then, both Central Bible College and AGTS have come under the umbrella of what is now Evangel University so the seminary is now located at Evangel. The photos below are of the seminary. I loved the prayer chapel. What a reminder it is that NOTHING of eternal value is accomplished but through prayer. The cloud of witnesses above encouraged me as I knelt on the prayer bench to give thanks to God for all that He had done to get us to this moment. My favorite thing there was the Torah. This particular torah survived Hitler's Poland and was declared unkosher due to damage and age. It was donated to the seminary for academic and teaching purposes. As I stood there, I wondered what stories it could tell, what tradgedies it had seen, and especially how it experienced the power of God who will always save and preserve His own until His plan is completed.
Our first function was a baccalaureate for AGTS - just the ministerial students. There we heard an encouraging message about the path that God leads us on and how to trust it even when it takes you in directions you don't understand and didn't plan for. It certainly was a blessing to Darrell and I! Afterwards, they called all the candidates to the front to receive their hoods and to pray for us. The prayer time was power packed! There is something about Spirit-filled corporate prayer that is dynamic. You could feel the Spirit of God in the place as each graduate was prayed for by both the president of the seminary and the president of the university. We both had tears flowing as we felt the Spirit resting on us and heard the prayers prayed for us assuring us that God was in all that we had done and been through, and would be in every step of our future. It was if these men, that we had never met, knew us personally and knew the journey we have been on. But I know that the Spirit is well aware and gave these men of God the words to pray over us and we received their prayers gladly. We weren't the only ones that said this after the service. What a blessing is was to be there! 
Our 2nd day was AGTS baccalaureate for all AGTS graduates. Again, the worship was wonderful and the speaker so dynamic and encouraging. Truly this man had a word from God for the graduates. I especially enjoyed the Evangel chapel and it's massive pipe organ. All the services were conducted in a celebratory yet reverent way. Darrell and I talked a lot about this trip, not sure that all the pomp and circumstance would be enjoyable but we're so glad that we went. What a blessing it was! 
We had a few hours to grab a bite to eat and to get ready for the big night! We had cashew chicken, of course! (If this means nothing to you, stay tuned to a future blog!) 

Graduation was held at SMU conference and convention center. The venue was about 1/2 the size of Bryce Jordan Center on Penn State's campus. The lobby and stage were decorated, the Evangel orchestra was playing, the worship team assembled, and of course, the grads were anticipating the big night! The speaker was Admiral Vern Clark, an Evangel alumnus. He was the 2nd longest serving Chief of Naval Operations and is a highly decorated Naval officer with a long list of accomplishments and honors, but when he stepped behind the podium that graduation night, he was a humble, (and quite funny), man of God with a lifetime of living for Christ and serving others in some of the most desperate of situations, while maintaining his witness and integrity. What an honor to hear the wisdom this man challenged the graduates with. The ceremony concluded with one power-packed prayer by a female professor and the largest confetti shower I've ever seen! It had been a hectic and tremendously blessed two days and we were spiritually full, exceptionally grateful, and expectantly looking to the future with a smile. 

The most special moment was when the entire building resounded with the chorus "You Are Worthy of it All" as graduates, faculty and spectators alike all raised their hands and sang. While some campuses are erupting with violence, this campus was filled with worship singing "for from You are all things, and to You are all things, You deserve the glory." And so He does! 

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The Grand Graduation Adventure - Our Historical B&B in Springfield, MO

5/14/2024

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After many promises to return as soon as possible, we left Tony and Rhonda and headed south to Springfield, MO. Instead of staying at a chain hotel, we decided to "chance it" and we booked a room at historical bed and breakfast. When we lived in Springfield, we didn't have time or interest in the history of the area. I wasn't even aware that Springfield even had a history. LOL! It turns out that it's history is fascinating and something I hope to explore in the future.

Tucked on a corner that borders the historical district and SMU was the Walnut St. Inn. It's Victorian feel immediately caught my eye. Sprinkled all through the house were old photos with little bits of the house's history, taken from the builder/owner's journal and I read every single one I could find. (I have to admit though that it was a bit strange to be looking into the face of the owner's daughter while I was sitting on the toilet. That little piece of history could have been better placed. LOL) The original owner landed in Springfield during the first 50 years of it's founding and built a successful wholesale grocery business. He went on to become a prominent member of Springfield, enhancing the city's appeal and growth. The history of the house and some of Springfield's history can be found here: https://walnutstreetinn.com/history/

I picked the room because of the gas fireplace and the large windows that let in lots of natural light. The bedroom was large and well furnished with antique furniture that fit the time period perfectly. The adjoining room housed a wardrobe (and no, unfortunately it did not take me to Narnia), a dresser that was coverted into a vanity/sink area, a free standing tub with a shower curtain that hung from the ceiling, and a "water closet" that looked like they took it out of Mrs. Olsen's house on "Little House on the Prairie." It would be our home for 2 days and 2 nights. The grounds were small but tastefully decorated and the spring flowers were in full bloom. There was a cute carriage house in the back near the parking area. What Darrell liked was that it was only 2 blocks from the graduation venue on SMU's campus and was easily walkable. He hates city traffic as much as he hates Penn State traffic! Evidently he puts practicality before ambiance. 

The staff there was incredible! Jessica, the desk clerk, was a hard working girl with a big smile and friendly demeanor who is working towards becoming a pharmacist. We only had 2 hours between the time we picked up Darrell's graduation gown and our first baccalaureate. I cringed when we pulled it from the bag. It looked as if he had worn it the whole 32 years it took him to get his degree. I found an ironing board and set the iron to a "cool" setting per the instructions in the gown's bag. The minutes ticked away as I ironed and ironed, moving the iron to hotter and hotter settings with no results at all. I tried steaming it in the shower but that didn't work either. I discovered the laundry room and asked if I could stick it in the dryer with a damp towel but was told that legally they couldn't do it. But Jessica saw the look on my face and relented and allowed me to do it. Kudos to you, Jessica! You made my day and my hubby looked very regal in his graduation gown, hood and cap!

Breakfast the first morning was on the sweet side (as was the wait staff), pancakes with fresh fruit and a creamy sauce with just a touch of lemon flavor, bacon, and a small bowl of melon and grapes. I'm not a pancake or a lemon person, but I must say that I ate every bite and thought it was delicious. I even considered asking for 2nds. The next day, breakfast was more on the savory side, eggs with fresh veggies and a fruit cup, also very delicious. The dining area was very charming and I was especially drawn to a corner with a flowering plant and a victorian lamp with a shade that looked like they took it off of a flapper. (See the photo gallery below) Others that were staying there too chatted with us like we were old friends. That is one thing I love about B&Bs. There's more of a family feel and you meet some pretty interesting people. The common rooms were full of comfy chairs and things to do for all ages and it gave us a respite from the big city, transporting us out of the city to a more relaxed and quiet era. 

So if you're ever near Springfield and need a place to stay, I highly recommend the Walnut Inn! You won't be disappointed. Be sure to check out their website. https://walnutstreetinn.com/

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The Grand Graduation Adventure - God's Immeasurable Gift

5/11/2024

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(Hey! be sure to check out the photo gallery at the end of this post!)

​I have to admit it. This will be my favorite blog to write because it's about two of the most special people on this earth, Tony and Rhonda. Every now and then, God graciously and lovingly gives you a gift that you just can't put a value on and these two people are one of those gifts. 
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​​When God took us from the dairy farm, he dropped us right in the middle of the city in Springfield, MO. Granted, Springfield is not what some would consider big city. After all, until the 1990s, the skyline's tallest structure was the feed mill in the center of town but to us, it was a city none the less. Along with my lack of a sense of direction, I also am terrible at US geography. All I understood was that we were 18 hours from family, in the big city where people shoot at each other, all alone, somewhere in the middle of the country, with barely enough to eat and tuition bills pouring in.

Even though we couldn't afford it, Darrell would drive me to the country on Sunday afternoons just to smell the cow manure and corn silage. On one of those drives, we found a little country church and decided to attend the next week. That is where we met this precious couple. After church, they approached us and invited us to their house for lunch. It didn't even take one stomach growl for us to say yes. To our delight we followed them even further into the country to a small angus farm. And yes, they fed us steak, homemade biscuits, and fresh baked pie for desssert. It was as if they knew were coming. We spent the afternoon walking among the cows and watching Tony push our little girl on a tire swing that hung from a large tree in their front yard. 

Tony and Rhonda's youngest son had recently left home to go to college and they were feeling the effects of an empty nest. God putting us together was a match made in heaven. We spent many weekends in their "upper room", the room above the garage, where they had beds for all of us. According to Tony, "Ya'll saved my life. I was lost, but having you guys here and being able to play with your daughter filled a huge void in my life." We could easily say the same thing about them. They became our "family" in Missouri. I know these sweet people were God's provision, especially for me. I will be eternally grateful for them and I've already told Darrell to skip the beach next vacation, we're heading west.  

The sunrise on the prairie is something you don't want to miss. Soon after I would hear Rhonda banging around the kitchen as she fixed us a southern style breakfast-fresh eggs from the chickens in her yard, sausage, sausage gravy, and freshly baked biscuits. There's just something magical about her biscuits which she serves with homemade jams & jellies. 

After breakfast I would sneak out to the sunroom to have my devotions. Once I went to the front porch but she has a toad that likes to sit on the porch chair. He'll sit there for days until he gets hungry and then he'll go eat and come back. He was not hungry the week we were there, so I had to go somewhere else. LOL! I called him the doorman.


When Rhonda isn't growing all the delicious food she serves us, she quilts! The first thing I saw when I pulled back the bedspread on the guest room bed was a handmade quilt. There is just something about a handmade quilt that says you are welcome and loved. I slept every night feeling like I was covered in love.  Rhonda showed me all the quilts she had made over the years. She has made one for each of her children and grandchildren and is now making quilts for great-grandchildren, some of which she may never see. One of my favorites is the chicken themed quilt she has on her couch. I was silently hoping that I could have one of her quilts some day when she said, don't leave without picking one out. You're family too! I chose a double wedding ring in blues, reds, and pinks. It looks lovely on my bed. I will treasure it forever!

Although I call those years "my time spent in the state of misery," Tony and Rhonda made it feel more like home than I could have ever imagined it could be. Their love and care for us meant so much to this homesick-how will I ever be a pastor's wife-where in the world is Missouri-girl.

They say you can never go home but walking into their house after not seeing them for 30 years was like coming home and it seemed as if no time had passed at all. They are just as I remember them, genuine, loving, generous and fun! In the places I have been since leaving MO, the genuine part means the most to me. There's a stability and trust I feel around them that I don't have anywhere else. That's hard to find in today's world. Even though they no longer live in Springfield where we made so many memories, I have come to the conclusion that anywhere Tony and Rhonda are is a place I can call home. Many people agree that relationships are our greatest asset. When it comes to Tony and Rhonda, I have to agree. They are truly one of my life's greatest treasures.  



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The Grand Graduation Adventure - Some Days Angels Work Overtime

5/9/2024

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As many of you know, Darrell and I love adventures - traveling the unknown roads, seeing the oddities that you find on the backroads of America, and chatting with all the people we meet along the way. So we decided take a few extra days and drive to Missouri instead of flying.  We hit the road at 5:30 a.m. on Saturday with the intent to make Kansas City, MO by nightfall, a mere 13 hour drive. The truck was packed with all kinds of goodies: fruit, nuts, sandwich stuffs, vitamin water, soda, crackers, guacamole, hummus, and carrot and celery sticks, and the ever popular Werthers Toffee. Eating lunch in the truck made for less stops and more efficient travel. 

The first two hours or so were spent in the wilds of Pennsylvania, where we were surrounded by the mountains that we love so much. That early in the morning, this is exactly how they looked to me - a little blurry, but beautiful. 
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We crossed into Ohio, also known as toll road heaven. Everytime you came around a corner, there was another toll gate. I did plan for tolls but not nearly $25.00 worth, just in Ohio. Seriously? I guess they need the funds to build the pretty impressive gas station/rest stops that we explored. One even had an Aunt Annie's and to Darrell's credit, he had a hallmark day and didn't buy one. 

Indiana soon rose to meet us where one corn or bean field was as big as a whole farm in Pennsylvania. You couldn't stand at one end of the field and see the other end like you can in PA and the dirt, oh my, was rich and dark and deep, and void of rocks! Darrell drooled at the thought. I think he could see himself on an air conditioned tractor with a glass of ice tea in the cup holder, with his feet up as the GPS guided him down perfectly straight rows. I didn't take any photos that day because, quite honestly, the scenery was all the same. Just fields and farms and fields and farms and fields and fields and fields.  

The day was full of chatting, laughing, dreaming, munching on snacks, and napping-just me, of course. I don't know if Darrell napped or not, but I didn't worry because as he so often tells me, "Don't worry! I am a PRO-fessional driver." Still nothing prepared us for Illinois. A pickup truck passed us right before a bridge. It drove straight into the cable guardrail before the bridge, swerved around the bridge and drove into the cable guardrail on the other side, causing it to swerve and spin into the median where it came to a stop. Then without warning, the driver stepped on the gas and floored it, crossing right in front of us while we were going 70 m.p.h. More than likely we weren't going that fast because any "PRO-fessional" driver would have slowed while watching that truck banging and crashing around in front of them and I was so glad that Darrell was driving and that God was watching over us. We kept those angels pretty busy that day. 

We came right out of that scene and into the darkest, most omnious looking clouds I've seen in awhile and I suddenly remembered that tornados are no stranger to that area. I checked the weather and discovered that the line of storms that had devastated Nebraska earlier that morning were now heading straight for us. We were under a tornado watch and as the rain poured to the point that we could hardly see and the hail pelted our truck, all the sudden the joy of the journey disappeared and nervousness set in. I was constantly watching the skies for those green looking clouds that form right before a twister and scanning the horizon for funnel shaped clouds. Then as quick as it had begun, it stopped, possibly due to the prayer meeting each of us was having in our seat. We managed to make our destination, Kansas City, MO, and to the home of the friends we were going to visit for a few days. They were so glad to see us and we were all glad that we made it in once piece! We put my truck in their garage for the night until the storms passed by. 

I was again reminded that my times are in the Lord's hands and well, if that was supposed to be the day that I left the earth, (even if transported by a tornado), I knew all would be well. I calmed down after that thought, but I must admit, the rest of the journey wasn't quite as relaxing and the welcome light on the porch of our friend's house was a welcome sight! 


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One Grand Graduation Adventure - How It All Began

5/8/2024

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One Grand Graduation Adventure
So many of you have commented that you have missed my adventure blogs. Truth be told, so have I! The reality of it is that we were busy working on one grand adventure that was a long time coming.

In 1986, we packed all of our belongings in a U-Haul truck, along with our 6-month old baby and a golden retriever and headed west to the state of Missouri. Darrell had been accepted to AGTS (Assemblies of God Theological Seminary) and would be earning his Masters of Divinity in Pastoral Studies degree. Because his BS was in dairy science, we knew it would take a little longer but we never dreamed it would take 33 years!

We went without having jobs, a place to live, or even a kitchen table as we had sold as much as we could to have enough money to get there. A family from the seminary graciously offered to house us until we could get settled and what a blessing they were! (Thank you Craig and Fay! We have never forgotten or ceased to be thankful for your gracious hospitality!)

I soon came to refer to Missouri as “the state of Misery,” as money was too tight and life was hard but Darrell persevered and in 5 years earned 90 of the 96 credits that he needed. During that time span, we youth pastored at 2 local churches and senior pastored a third, and we moved 4 times in order to be closer to the churches we were serving in. All the while, Darrell not only studied full time, but he worked full time as well.

In 1991, our home church in Pennsylvania invited us to come home and serve with Chi Alpha ministries, the AG’s campus ministry. We jumped at the chance to go home, thinking that Darrell could finish his last two credits by mail. (There was no internet at that time.)

Upon arriving home, he learned that not only was he the campus pastor but was also the CE director of the large church that was paying our salary. The classes got postponed as we got acclimated to a quickly growing campus ministry and the other duties. In 1993, we planted a church with the campus group at the request of the Pastor of the church. Planting a church leaves you neither time or money to spare and again, the classes were postponed. We worked hard and established a growing, thriving church and in 1999, we had a devastating car accident that left 2 of our children brain injured and a third pretty badly beaten up. Life again changed, and the classes were postponed. In the back of Darrell’s mind, he always wanted to finish what God had asked him to start, but life....

In 2019, after a few hard years of medical issues, family emergencies, ministry frustrations, and personal challenges, he resigned the church we had planted and pastored for 26 years. In 2023, he began the process of finishing his degree and discovered that after 10 years, college credits do not count anymore. We were devastated that those 5 years of struggle and near starvation now meant nothing. Still Darrell was determined to do what God had asked of him and started the whole process over. He was accepted at another on-line college to earn a lesser degree at a more reasonable cost.

In the process of finding this out, AGTS inquired as to why we had not finished those last 2 classes. When they learned that we had been busy in ministry and planting a church while persevering through devastating personal challenges, the student advisory council, motivated by the grace of God and in an unprecedented act, decided to let him finish. So our weekend adventures stopped and the studying began.

It was all encompassing, taking months of every evening and all weekend for reading and writing. He also had to tackle the technological challenges as he created videos, participated in ZOOM mtgs., submitting electronically, etc. Finally, in December of 2023, after writing a 65-page paper summarizing his months of study, the coveted degree was “bestowed” as the guys in the flowing gowns and funny hats said at graduation...but wait, I’m getting ahead of myself.

Since neither of us had attended our college graduations in the past, and still marveling at the goodness of God towards us to allow Darrell to finish without extra class requirements or penalties, we decided that he should attend this graduation, with all of its pomp and circumstance, and so our Grand Graduation Adventure began. In the next few posts, I will be sharing photos, commentary, and thoughts of the 9-day trip that culminated in the graduation ceremony. So stay tuned!

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