Failure does not define you as a failure. Only you can do that.
Failure helps you locate where you are so that you can get where you want to be.
Failure is your most faithful friend. It tells you the truth.
Failure is your most valuable professor, if you are teachable.
Failure produces fertile ground for the seeds of divine dreams if watered with humility and nourished with truth.
Failure can be the launchpoint of a new journey and its lessons the fuel for a new beginning.
Failure is simply a detour. Detours can reveal things to you that you might not have otherwise noticed.
Eventually you will end up where you should be.
Do not fear failure. Glean from it life's lessons and leave its regrets in your wake.